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Getting engaged to your soul mate is one of the most amazing moments you'll ever experience.

And now comes the challenging part - organising the biggest and best party ever. Yes, there's a huge amount to do, but it needn't take over your lives! Don't know where to start? Take it step by step.

First things first

Congratulations! You're engaged - but what happens next? Now's the time to decide what kind of wedding you both want:

Sort the ceremony I Pick bridesmaids I Traditional wedding roles I Choose the flowers I Arrange seating plans I Meet the wedding coordinator I Professional wedding photography I Low-cost wedding photos I Music

Remind me!

See what needs to be done at every stage of the planning process, from the moment you get engaged to the day before the wedding. Tick the box when you've completed a task or click 'Remind me' and we'll send out an email - at the right time for you - so you don't forget to do a thing.

- Start your checklist

Need some help?

Don't panic, the wedding professionals are on hand to make sure your day goes smoothly. Watch the video clips for expert tips and advice:
Bridal dresses I Cakes I Canapes I Groom's suit I I Reception drinks I Speeches I Table arrangements I Venues: The London Eye

Plus: Videos: More expert wedding tips

Doing the maths

More than 50 per cent of couples contribute the bulk of the money - on average £17,179 in the UK. Use our budget calculator as a guide to see the average amount couples spend on each aspect of the wedding and to help you work out your costs.

Plus: Stylish weddings on a budget I Can you afford married life?